Frequently Asked Questions about Adoption
- Can I select the adoptive family? Can I interview more than one family before making a decision? Can I meet them before the baby is born?
- Can a relative or friend adopt the baby?
- Can I get help in selecting a family I don't know?
- Can I select a family without meeting them? Can I look at a book of pictures and information on families waiting to adopt?
- Will my identity be protected if I want no involvement with the adoptive family or my child?
- Can the adoptive family go to doctor appointments with me? Can they be in the delivery room?
- Can I spend time alone with my baby?
- Can my baby go home with the adoptive family right from the hospital?
- Can someone take care of my baby while I decide what to do?
- Can I request pictures and information about my child after the adoption?
- Will I be able to see my child after he/she is placed with an adoptive family? Can we have a relationship after adoption?
- Can I get help dealing with my feelings after the baby is born? After the baby is adopted? Later?
- Will someone be there to help my child and the adoptive family as needed? Over time?
- Will I be told about available financial help?
The answer is YES. These choices are available to you in adoption. Birth parent counseling can help you learn more about these options and help you decide for yourself what is best for you and your baby. Learn more about birth parent services from Catholic Charities or call 651-647-3100 and ask about pregnancy counseling.
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